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Feelings & Calm

Calm-Down Choice Board

12 calming choices kids can point to, plus cut-out cards and a calm-down plan.

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Also part of the Calm-Down Kit, together with Feelings Check-In Cards, Try-It Bingo, and My Worry Jar, for $12.50.
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What it is

Give kids a simple picture menu of calming choices for when feelings get big. The poster shows 12 calming choices kids can point to: breathe like a balloon, blow bubbles, squeeze a pillow, get a drink of water, count to 10, hug a stuffy, stomp it out, draw it out, listen to music, go to my calm spot, read a book, and talk to a grown-up. Every choice has a friendly hand-drawn picture, so it works for kids who aren't reading yet or who shut down when they're upset.

What's included

  • "When I have big feelings, I can…" poster with 12 calming choices
  • 12 cut-out choice cards
  • My Calm-Down Plan page (feelings faces, body, First / Next / Then, grown-up help)
  • Trace & Breathe page with square breathing and wave breathing
  • Grown-up guide and cover page

Great for

Calm-down cornersCounseling and therapy sessionsClassrooms and small groupsHome, the car, or grandma's house

Printing tips

Print on cardstock and laminate. Add velcro dots to the choice cards to use them on the plan page. This is a digital file, so nothing will be shipped.

Terms of use

For personal, classroom, and counseling-room use. Please don't share or resell the file.

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